If I press the 'Run' button, it'll quit every time, just as described above.)
So, I have two questions:
(1) Why is the Addon Manager suddenly causing this problem?
This has been discussed many times on the forum, if FSX quits to desktop after the Addon Manager starts, it's because you ended up with files mixed between old and new versions of it.
It's not normally possible to end up in this situation, because our installers always downloads the most current files at the same time while it starts, from the same server so, you should never end up with mismatched versions of its files.
But it still can happen for one of the following reasons:
1) Your antivirus has mistakenly identified the Addon Manager as a threat, so it blocked the download of the .dll, but let pass the other files, which are not executable so are not checked by the antivirus. This will end up with a mixed set of files.
To fix this, install with the antivirus disabled, and configure it BEFORE running FSX to exclude the following files from scanning:
YOURFSXFOLDER\bglmanx.dll
YOURFSXFOLDER\fsdreamteam\couatl\Couatl.exe
2) You have a permission problem on your system, or another program that is locking the FSX folder from writing (even FSX itself, if you tried to run one of our installers when FSX wasn't entirely closed), and SOME of the updated files couldn't be written.
You can usually fix this by restarting Windows and reinstall any product that comes with the Addon Manager.
(2) How do I uninstall it. (I can't find an entry under Control Panel>Programs & Features for this, and no line entries under [Trusted] in my original FSX.CFG that clearly pertain to it. Nor can I find where the application physically resides.)
The Addon Manager comes with any product from FSDT, or Flightbeam, or Qualitywings. You will not see a separate entry for it, UNLESS you have installed the Stand-Alone Addon Manager separately using its own Stand-Alone installer, which can be found as "VIRTUALI Addon Manager" in the "Add/Remove Programs" section of the Control Panel.
If you don't have such section, it means you got the Addon Manager from a product that came with it. In this case, if you install THAT one, you'll see a question "Do you want to remove the Addon Manager ?". Reply YES to it, and it will be entirely uninstalled.
To be sure you don't have the problem #2 I've listed before, after you reply YES to the question "Do you want to remove the Addon Manager ?", go into your FSX root folder, and check there aren't ANY files with a name beginning with bglmanx* ( one .DLL and several .DAT files ).
If you have any of those files left after the Uninstall, remove them manually, then REINSTALL the program that came with the Addon Manager you just Uninstalled, and this will surely fix the FSX quitting at start problem.